God doesn’t always come when you think you need Him, but He’s always right on time.
Two years ago today, I met a man who would change my life forever. After I ended my engagement in January 2012, I decided that I needed to focus on my relationship with God and my relationship with myself. I wasn’t looking for love–in fact, I had sworn off men altogether. But God orders your steps according to His will, not yours. And on March 24, 2012, I received one of the biggest blessings of my life.
As part of my fresh new start, I had packed up my belongings and hired a local moving company to help me get settled into a new apartment. One of the movers engaged me in conversation, politely offering to show me around Madison sometime. As he was leaving, I gave him a business card with my cell number on the back. He called me as soon as he got back into the moving truck. 🙂 And now, two years later, our relationship remains.
There are so many reasons why I love him. He’s hilarious, but isn’t afraid to have a serious conversation. He’s hardworking and generous. He’s strong. He’s brave. He’s a great son and an even better father. He’s ambitious and isn’t afraid to go after his dreams. He makes me feel beautiful. He teaches me something new about the world every single day. And though we’ve had our ups and downs, he’s still here loving me exactly the way I am…even when I don’t love myself.
Every day that we wake up next to each other is a good day. We talk about our future together all the time–the business we’ll own and the trips we’ll take. But I really don’t care what we’re doing, as long as we’re doing it together and for the glory of God.
So to my Bae, thank you for these two years together. Thank you for all the sacrifices you’ve made (and I know there have been a lot of them). Thank you for staying and fighting for us. And most of all, thank you for showing up to work that day. 🙂